It will be learned in the future that people with autism last patiently in their bodies with complete mental competence. Waiting for this to be confirmed before looking for your child is sadly missing the years of his life while he desperately waits for you. Parents reach out to more normal children when they have issues. Why not for your autistic child without thinking he is mentally impaired? Maybe you have tried a significant amount of things, but looking through assumptions given to you by medicine and education gives you a different approach and result.

Old poor assumptions sometimes really interfere with the ability the person wants and waits for. Some owe their entire life perspective to decisions experts, teachers and even parents who can speak really sealed with only the least amount each time of understanding and factual observation.  When you ask why I can say this, I ask what allows you to declare incompetence rather than assuming you and your experts aren’t incompetent communicators? Really, altogether and in conspiracy, you sadly trap the nonverbal autistic with agreement. You do this unconsciously and steal all significant realization of his future. You essentially exact tasks to prove competing interpretations while sadly risking life and relationship.  This terrible situation is driven by those who are paid to keep us needy.

copyright 2013 John Smyth